Wednesday, August 11, 2010

How To Date Women - Keep Her By Your Side

By Alan Robinson

If you already at the stage where you are thinking about how to date women, I assume you already possess a woman in mind and both of you might have gone on a couple of dates already. In this stage, you have a chance to show her that you're an independent and fun man to be with and make her wish to be a part of your life. Know that conveying yourself as an independent and fun guy doesn't imply you should try hard to impress her with false attitude and expensive gifts.

By "independent", I mean that you should stop asking for her approval on everything like "funny isn't it?" or "did you have fun?"; have confidence on yourself and lead the way. Become a man who can clear up his own issue, don't complaining about your problem in front of her and perceive yourself as a guy she can count on.

Moreover, DO NOT seeking to impress her with money. Some guys will instantly draw their visa card as soon as they see the woman they like point on an item in a shopping mall. But when you're trying to buy a woman's heart with cash, you'll get a shoppoholic woman and it'll lead to even more problems sometime soon. Moreover, she may ditch you immediately if you've gone broke or get fired from your high-class job.

By "fun", I am not saying that you ought to learn hundreds of jokes and humor. Jokes and humor will flow naturally from anyone who already understands how to date women properly. Just be fun, tease her, mess with her, and keep flirting. Concentrate the conversation on her thoughts and opinions and steer clear of "yes-no" question like a plague. Try to toss 1 or 2 imaginary question such as "if you are able to decide on where to live on, where would that be?" to understand her character and how she sees live. Keep building attraction and emotional connection with her by speaking about her passion and desire. Also, make her know you a bit better by talking about your interest and look for common characteristics between the two of you.

Even with "I'm fun to be with" attitude, your date will certainly going nowhere if you cannot create the "spark of chemistry". Don't count on your lady to do this; you as the man must lead and make the date keep exciting and enjoyable. Try to have more physical contact such as holding hands, putting your arm around her waist, or kissing her cheek. If she's comfortable with your touch, you might be able to proceed further on the next date (or even later on in the night).

You don't really need to be a guru at how to date women to please your woman. The things that matter are she's enjoying her time with you and your relationship keep escalating to the next level (if you keep it stagnant, you will end up as "best friend"). Making her laugh is not enough; you have to be involved deeper with her, both emotionally and physically. To be precise, you'll need to create the chemistry between the two of you to the point that people believe that you somewhat have romantic relationship with her. If you failed to convey this message, you might even find yourself a competitor; this is most likely to happen, especially in a club where plenty of guys are coming to get themselves a hot chick. By knowing and doing the right thing, this won't happen to you.

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Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Having An Amazing Russian Wife Is Simple

By Lera Cupidonova

International relationships are very common these days. Just ask anyone you know. A Russian wife may find her way to a British husband, or a French woman may fall in love with a Moroccan. There are thousands of possibilities and more people today than ever before. Of course it's possible that someone's soul mate was born thousands of miles away.

There are numerous examples of couples who have a relationship that spans culture, and are enjoying their time together, even if it is hard. Even though a long distance relationship may have it's difficulties, especially when one of the partners must make the decision to move to be in the same place as the other, it can still be an incredible and fulfilling experience, well worth the time spent in contacting each other online.

When people start looking for love on the internet, they sometimes wonder about appropriate behavior. It's vital to not only know where to look for a potential mate, but also how to talk to them and how to maintain a long distance relationship when you think you may want to take the next step.

Since the internet is relatively new, people still don't know how they should act when the use it to connect with others. Since it's such a new medium, there are lots of differences between it and other forms of communication. There are important things to remember when using the web to conduct a relationship with someone far away.

One thing to remember is that the age-old rules that we learned as young people about relationships and relationship behavior are pretty much the same online as they are face-to-face. It's important to be attentive and interested in what your partner has to say and what they care about. It's also important to ask about who they are, what they like to do and what their families are like. People like it when others show interest in them.

Another thing that might help in a long distance relationship is to not always use the internet to communicate. Sometimes, because the web is so efficient and easy to use, other forms of contact are forgotten. What about writing a letter, sending a postcard, or calling on the telephone? All of these are also wonderful forms of communication, and now are much more appreciated since the internet is so much easier to use.

People who have good skills with others face-to-face can also give advice for online dating because ultimately, they are very similar. They have a good sense of when and how to respond to the person you are interested in, and can provide an excellent source of support and ideas to improve and further a relationship. International love is not so different from having someone down the street but it can be a challenge at first.

A Russian wife, an American husband, a French wife, a German husband- people have found love from all corners of the world, and they can thank online dating for that. It's not such a challenge, and maybe even more simple than other kinds of dating, even though similar etiquette applies.

Monday, August 9, 2010

Social Networking Discussed

By Sandra James

When it comes to your own online profile, you will have to know the basic rules. Make sure you can complete an interesting profile, because it will act like your business card for dates.

Rule 1: Never Lie!

No, don't run away, I will not start telling you about bible teachings. Nevertheless, lying is a very bad thing to do on online community websites. If you put a nice but untrue picture on your profile you might register success at first. But try to think about the outcome of your lie. No relationship should start with lie, even if they are small ones.

Rule 2: Identify what sets you apart from others.

All humans are beautiful in a way, all are unique in a certain manner and all are wonderful. We all have indubitable qualities but also nasty defects we have to keep under control.

Describe yourself with all possible details you can thing of. Don't give away any personal data, but offer information about you qualities, your hobbies, your ideas and so on. We all are nasty secret diggers and like to take a peek into someone's life. And because of this, a profile that's filled with various small or big "secrets" will surely become popular. You might even get contacted by someone that likes the way you hate a movie or who is also interesting in finding ovation for sale or likes the same luxurious cars.

Rule 3: Don't write as you never went to school!

I know the Internet allows us to use all sorts of abbreviations that surprisingly are no longer considered grammar mistakes if used online. Some young people think mixed words like "4fun" are efficient, but they don't say too many good things about the one who writes them. SMS chatting, online abbreviations and other strange language alterations should not be used in your descriptions. You never know who you might be coming across and the way you write is your first fingerprint when online. A mistake-free page shows it belongs to an intelligent person. Hilarious pages are too much, you need to make your page just a bit funny.

Rule 4: Post REAL but GOOD pictures.

We don't have to be really beautiful or experienced to make some nice pictures. Unfortunately most people guide themselves on first impression and looks when choosing a potential date. This fact makes the use of good and inspirited photos a must. Make sure you are visible in the photo and better choose some prime plans.

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Sunday, August 8, 2010

Cigar Shop, CA And The Cigar "Coolness" Factor

By Alex Frasier

Cigar Shop, CA: High Status

Smoking a cigar with friends after a hard day of work is something that every cigar-smoking aficionado relishes. Just yesterday, a heated discussion on the status a cigar affords us came to light as a group of us were laying around at one of the best Cigar Shop, CA locations.

One of the guys made the comment that smoking a cigar used to seem more prestigious when every Tom, Dick and Harry couldn't pick one up at any local corner store. He was saying that back when it was a bit harder to get your cigar, it meant more to be a cigar smoker.

Cigar Shop, CA: Johnny's Rant

Well, this just flat out made Johnny madder than the mad hatter. Johnny takes his image quite seriously and took great offense at the thought that his status symbol might not be seen in the correct light.

Johnny said that he was cooler than any other guy out there for smoking his top dollar Montecristo. He started screaming that the only reason other guys could find cigars more easily these days was because they were buying $3 cheapies at the corner store.

Cigar Shop, CA: Hard to Focus

The other guys in our group tried really hard to think on what it was that Johnny had been yelling about. However, what was really going on was that the group was spending more mental power on the watching the young woman who walked by in that tight dress.

Finally, once the woman had turned the corner, we were all able to focus slightly on which side of the argument we were going to side with. What was the truth here? Had our coolness been zapped when it comes to smoking our cigars?

Cigar Shop, CA: The Final Decision

Johnny...on his third drink of the night...was getting louder and louder in defense of how great of a cigar smoker he was. The rest of us started screaming back, some in defense of how we had been made less-than-cool by the "corner store" phenomenon and some in defense of Johnny's position.

Our discussion never did have a conclusive answer, but we think the fact that we were saved from an all out brawl when our hot girlfriends, who love cigar smoking guys, came to pick us up for a crazy night on the town answers the question once and for all about how cool it is to be a cigar smoker.

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Saturday, August 7, 2010

Game PUA - Underground Seduction Tactic Clarified

By Logan Cole

In just a couple of moments I will teach you a Game PUA technique that will have women experiencing phenomenal sexual feelings for you. By the way, you don't have to have millions of dollars or looks like Brad Pitt.

One of the elements that is a critical skill to succeeding with women is possessing a sense of humor.

Normally, I don't reveal tips such as these, but given that I've gotten way more than my fair share of women, I've made up my mind to let a small group of guys 'slip in on the fun'.

If you're intelligent, you'll take these techniques and draw in as many attractive women as you want. Before I give you a taste of what's possible, here's a quick story...

I know this guy who doesn't even care if there's a porn star in the room because he's going to approach them no matter how attractive they appear.

Get this - they all like him and chuckle at all his jokes. My friend can number close with the very best of us, yet he can't ever tend to get to the next step with these women.

See, he feels that his physical appearance or image are what's keeping him from succeeding, and he's chosen that he wants to get a cosmetic operation just to be 'better looking to women'.

Looks are not his setback... Chances are, it's not yours either.

A lot of men believe that women will only be drawn to them if they're "hot".

The reality is, you can be average looking, but if you can develop this one skill, you'll be the future Don Juan.

So what is this one skill you need?

Several pick up gurus refer to it as Sexual Tension. Women can't decide to feel sexual tension for a guy... It just COMES ABOUT NATURALLY. And you my friend, can CREATE it.

Let's say that I'm chatting to an attractive woman and I can tell right off the bat that she's really into me.

One routine I'll use at some point in the chatter is sort of a pull-push technique. I'll say something like...

"So where are you from? ... Oh really? That's so awesome because I know a few people from there and they're some of my best friends! Actually one of those was my ex girlfriend, so now we can never be friends. You remind me too much of my ex!"

You'll want to say this in a playful way. Can you recognize why this works so effectively?

When anyone says to you that you can't have something, we WANT IT MORE. Tension escalates inside us because of it.

This is a special kind of sexual tension and you can utilize this as a template to develop some of your own lines to use.

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Friday, August 6, 2010

Carry A Taser To Prevent Rape

By Jessi Deamond

I willingly shed my all girls school biases so I could attend university with an open mind. It gave me a bit of a culture shock in my first year. Boys did not always respect girls and peer pressure sanctioned this behavior.

The prospect of school perils including date rape or a fraternity initiation came with every time kids gathered for fun after dark. At the risk of being perceived as goody-goody, it motivated me to carry a Taser to prevent rape.

The Taser C2 shoots two darts secured to wires safely within a 15 feet range. A brother some years my senior let me in on this one weekend he visited home while staying at a dormitory.

How he reiterated that I could lawfully carry a Taser to prevent rape once I turned 18. He warned me about date rape drugs, underlining that I could shoot a C2 while drunk or drugged. It would work on any part of the attacker?s body.

I did not expect his lecture would soon give me a reality check. Not only was he right about the Taser C2, he was dead on about what happens in college.

I went to see a gig of some bands with some schoolmates including someone from the dorm next door. I do not suppose he knew I would carry a Taser to prevent rape because he was all over me that night.

After I rejected his advances, he became very pushy. We were right there among fellow students but everyone was drunk and oblivious to what I was going through. I was on my own.

I did not have to shoot my C2. He backed off when he saw that I had the presence of mind to carry a Taser to prevent rape. I learned that night to stop being obliging even if it meant I stopped being popular.

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Thursday, August 5, 2010

The Ultimate Ex Girlfriend Guru Review - Get Her Back Without Begging!

By Jeremy Sullivan

If your idea of getting a woman to come back is begging, groveling, and shattering your manhood, you desperately need this Ex Girlfriend Guru review. The truth is acting in that manner is more likely to turn her off then bring her back!

Don't follow the path of so many other men who think the only way to get a woman to come back is to concede defeat and turn over everything in their life that makes them a man. You can get everything you want from your ex plus without becoming a whipping post for the rest of your life.

There is a window of opportunity that you can take advantage of, no matter what you may have done to tick her off to begin with. It doesn't matter who left who or for what reason, you can get her back without begging. You can make her do the work to bring the relationship back together.

Even more important than just getting her back is having her back because she asked for it. They science behind these psychological principles will show you how to work with her mind so that she believes it is all her idea to come back. She will come back handing you the control, rather than demanding it from you.

You may be wondering if all of this actually works, right? Take the advice of this knowledgeable Ex Girlfriend Guru review and know that other men have tried the methods in this book and most of them to this day live happily with the women of their dreams.

It isn't the reading of the book that does the magic. It's having the courage to follow through with the strategies and techniques that you read. If you knew exactly how to get in your ex girlfriend's head and lead her right back to your arms without her even knowing she's being lead...wouldn't you do it?

Doesn't her coming back on her own desire sound more appealing then sacrificing your manhood and your control of your life to beg her back? You don't want to bow down and give her everything she demands on a platter just to have her in your life.

In fact, have you ever wondered why so many relationships that do come back together meet quick failure once again? It's because someone was guilt-tripped into coming back and the other person had to give up their happiness to make it happen. Go with this book instead and create a win-win situation where you both get what you want.

Getting your ex back is actually pleasurable if you go the Ex Girlfriend Guru review way. Take action now, before that window of opportunity closes and your chance is gone.

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Wednesday, August 4, 2010

The Top Method To Get Your Ex Back

By Douglas Fernandez

Relations are difficult work. Don't let anyone else ever tell you otherwise. There are such a lot of things that would be a point of conflict between you and your important other. It could be the little things that annoy you. Like the way he always leaves the can seat up, or how there is a pile of mail on the table that's weeks old. Or maybe its the pile of mucky socks that he never appears to see. These are the minor things that over time start to irritate and irritate you. Eventually they become huge things and then you are no longer together and she has now your ex. But what if you want to get your ex back?

The first thing you've got to do is work out exactly why you broke up in the 1st place. You might think you want to get back and all the reasons why you broke up aren't important, but they were vital to you at some point you you need to at least understand what they were so you can put them behind you. When you have identified the explanations why you split up you want to truly ask if the same stuff occur again, will you be ready to handle it.

There's no point in getting back together if you're just going to break up again. That said, you'll have to learn to compromise and let some things go, just like he will.

Communication is the key here. If you don't let each other know what all the reasons were that you split up in the first place, then you will never get your ex back. There are some specific things you need to do after you've started speaking again.

There was a reason that you and your Ex were initially drawn to each other, and this was because you are a unique person. Think of what made these first weeks or months so special, and try to identify what has modified.

Sometimes relationships can become dull and you can forget what it was that made both of you compatible. Learn how to accentuate your qualities and struggle to be the genuine person you are. This replenished self-perception of yourself will rub off on everyone around you.

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Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Are You Still Arguing With Your Girlfriend? Knock It Off And Be Happy!

By Steve Steiner

Arguments with your girlfriend, unfortunately, are a fact of life at some point in a relationship. Disagreements seem bound to happen despite all the love and respect you feel for each other. You'll find that sometimes tempers flare for no real reason, and arguments start for the most ridiculous reasons!

Sometimes you feel just as bad whether you "won" or lost! Before the bickering takes over and destroys the relationship, you've got to do something!

Stop Arguing with Girlfriend Tip #1 -- Will it Matter Tomorrow?

You can't fight about every perceived wrong. You should get used to not getting you way all the time, because a woman worth staying with won't put up with it. If you know she's got a problem with punctuality, for example, does it make sense to start bickering with her every time she shows up late? If you start the evening off bickering about her lateness, that's going to be the tone for the entire evening. Sound like fun? If it doesn't, don't let her being a few minutes late ruin her evening - and yours.

Don't misunderstand - there are plenty of big things that might happen that you'll have to confront her on. Just because you're trying to let go of the small things doesn't mean you should ignore it when she takes large sums of money from your savings account. When such major issues come up, you have to address them right away. When something like that happens, you've got to sit down with her and address the problem directly. But if she left the cap off the toothpaste tube, so what? I mean, cry me a river! Let it go!

Stop Arguing with Girlfriend Tip #2 -- Share Your Feelings

Our women tell us that one of our biggest problems is that we men like to keep things bottled up inside. Issues just sit and fester until suddenly there's a major problem. This is a counterproductive way of dealing with issues. For instance, if you find yourself picking up the tab all the time and it bothers you, let her know that it feels wrong to you.

Your conversation needs to be calm and civilized, though, and you can't call her a miser! Not everything that annoys you was done deliberately for that purpose. Many women don't want to pay in public because they don't want their men to feel embarrassed. If, during your talk, you find this to be the case, it should be a lot easier for you to find a solution to your problem.

If you want to avoid an argument with your girlfriend, try an open, straightforward discussion.

Stop Arguing with Girlfriend Tip #3 -- Be a Trend-Spotter

The things we fight about are frequently immaterial - it's the fighting itself and the general subject matter that might form patterns that are instructive. Something you might experiment with is this: look at the last few arguments and see if there's any common thread.

When couple bicker, it's frequently about a narrow range of issues. If that's the case with you, you should discuss those issues together calmly. If there's something about her behavior that's bugging you, don't tell her there's something wrong with her - tell her how you feel when she does it. Feelings aren't good or bad, they're just there. If you share your feelings about things, you'll understand each other better, and you'll find yourself paying attention to each other's feelings more. Problems have a way of shrinking, and solutions become more obvious, when the two of you are sharing and working together.

Sharing your feelings with your girlfriend is a basic element of what relationships are all about. Honesty is a crucial part of your relationship. Being "right" isn't. Discuss things honestly and openly, and you'll be able to stop arguing with her and enjoy spending time with your girlfriend.

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Monday, August 2, 2010

In Which Bouquet Of Flowers Will Make Her Heart Sway?

By Byron Wright

The traditional Egyptians are thought to be first to use flowers as symbols of love. What a trend they set millennial later on flowers are still at the very top of the charts for gifts of love.

Love is a very broad category, and luckily, so are flower kinds. Love can be voiced as closeness, as intense zeal, as filial, and any relationship in which respect and care are the foundation. So, when selecting flowers to send to whomever your feelings bend to, and in whatever degree of love, there are flowers that are acceptable.

Outside your feelings for the woman or man, consider her or his feelings the kind of person receiving the flowers is more critical than the meaning of flowers, as interpretations differ, and while you could be fervently crazy about a girl who loves nature, she may like simple ivy to red roses. As well as the character, flowers can splendidly complement a way of life. Pay attention to the sort of environment, colors and type of those you like, and they'll be impressed by your sensitiveness to what they adore. When thought goes into a bouquet, the gift takes on an alternative meaning, and will likely be recalled long after the blossoms end blooming. First on the list in selecting your bouquet is to grasp what you need to assert in giving it. If you're giving the bouquet to one who is contented and captivating, and your relationship is trusting, chrysanthemums or daisies convey this message.

If you're falling completely in love, but it's still quite frolicsome and the tone isn't too heavy yet, hyacinth is an option. These bright flowers themselves are frolicsome, with a robust, overwhelming smell. This sums up the first stages of love for many couples!

A little of modesty might be lost in receiving such a gift of understated subtlety. When we are giving flowers for romantic purposes, don't feel restricted to red or pink roses. As well as the gorgeous rose, other romantic contenders include tulips, lilacs, wildflowers, and orchids. If ultimately, after all of the years of motherly love, you wake up one day desiring to recognize mummy for all that she is done, pink carnations are a particularly engaging choice, as they represent a mother's everlasting love. According to legend, carnations resulted from the tears of Mary as she observed Jesus carry the cross.

Therefore, in giving carnations to ma, you are spotting the years of perpetual love that she has given to you! While flowers historically have their own language and meaning, don't feel restricted to flower language when selecting a bouquet.

Regularly much more relevant to your life is the character of the individual receiving the bouquet. Beginning with the eternally beloved drama queens (and kings) in our lives, the flowers they receive should represent their fiery personalities.Best for the dramatic one is a spray of bold colors in a pointed, non-traditional vase. Maybe a metallic square vase is in line here. While pleasing an artist aesthetically may appear a mission most unlikely, edge towards exotic flowers. Their scantiness will delight the inventive eye, and if you ask the florist to suggest some flowers of atypical shapes, this may be even better eye candy for the artist. The free-spirited and natural will adore that which reminds them of being outside: green and ripening plants, with some spicy smells added to take the imagination away from recent life. A classic beauty will like a normal arrangement of lush and numerous flowers, while the romantic will enjoy softness in both colors and perfume, with ribbons decorating the bouquet. Beyond character, if you're looking for a rather more interesting way to please, select the bouquet based totally on other considerations, for example color or home interior. Knowing her favorite color, and giving her a bouquet with that color as the focus will make any flower that much more appreciated. If you're going to an event, be it a ball or an anniversary dinner, work out the color of her dress previously, and order a bouquet which will match or counterpoint the dress. Regardless of if it will not go out with the pair of you, it'll look good in any pre-photos. Did granny buy new curtains that she is very happy with? How touched she'll be when you give her a bouquet that enhances her lovely new curtains (regardless of your opinion of them). The general type of an apartment or house can be considered. Do not feel you have to purchase a big gushing bouquet if the studio where the flowers are heading is minimalist and modern.
Florists are artists, and they can make a bouquet as different as you ask for. Naturally, with all of the meaning that flowers can take on, most critical, and most pleasant to the receiver, will be the flowers that have private meaning. If, on your initial date mooching through St. James' Park, you pinched a tulip to electrify your girl, this is going to be the most romantic flower to you as your relationship moves forward.

Rules are always guidelines, but life experience should be what marks and makes our own tenets. Do remember that whatever the flower, you can always enhance its seriousness by selecting a color she likes. Still, knowing the conventional meanings of flowers helps you decide what message you need to convey in giving flowers. Knowing their character and life-style will add to making a bouquet 100% unique to that person. Thus, when selecting flowers, there is not any wrong or right, but the more thought you put into the bouquet, the longer it'll be valued and recollected.

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Sunday, August 1, 2010

Learn To Forgive Your Partner

By Charlotte R. Brame

It's not said without reason that it's very difficult to forgive a person who has done something wrong to you. The statement holds more importance when the person in question is your own partner. While you may always take hurt to your heart and snap off all ties with you partner, it is not necessarily a sane decision. If you believe that relationships are for keeps, it appears reasonable to forgive your partner. Though forgiving your partner is quite a difficult task, the following suggestions may make the method simpler for you.

The 1st step towards forgiveness is to talk it out. 'Talking' here means talking only and not screaming or throwing away things, specifically your favorites like the Clearpores Skin Cleansing System. Both of you have to act like two mature and grown up individuals. Sit down and express what you feel. While you say what you want to, it is also important that you lend your partner a patient ear too. Once you talk it out, you'll feel much lighter and forgiving will be a tad simpler.

Another thing that can help you forgive your partner is to spend some time off from your partner. This could help you get clarity of thought. Giving some space to your other half may help you think things in perspective. Such time off may help you analyze your feelings and thought patterns in a better way, making it simpler to decide if you actually want to forgive your partner or not.

Before you forgive someone, you must first alleviate yourself of the agony and sorrow by crying. The luxury of crying can help alleviate any hurt you feel and allow you to let go off the emotions suppressed within you. Crying, may also help ease out any emotional turmoil which you might be suffering from.

However, a word of caution to those who're battling from skin conditions such as zits: crying may aggravate your trouble. Just rub or wipe away the tears that could exacerbate the skin issue and use efficient treatment like Exposed Skin care System to remedy the same.

Do not live in your past. Though erasing all the past bitter and harsh memories is not a possibility, the least you could do is to try to evade them to the highest feasible level. If you keep on thinking about the hurt inflicted on you by your other half, you will not be able to forgive your partner ever.

When handling such emotional chaos, it is quite natural for you to deviate from your diet plan. But, there is nothing to worry as you can use Dietrine Carb Blocker and stick to achieving your goals.

It may not be extremely easy to forgive your partner. However, if you want life and your relationship to move on, then adhering to the golden rule of forgiveness is a must.

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Saturday, July 31, 2010

Split Personalities Disease Of Human Personals

By Vanessa Cruz

Most human possesses personality and this is how they characterize themselves. Speaking of personality, there is particular disease that has relationship with human's personality and attacks human's mind called split-personality disorder. You may have ever heard about this before and of course this kind of disease will disturb the personals who suffer from it.

In details, according to the basic definition about Split Personality, "it is a relatively rare dissociative disorder in which the usual integrity of the personality breaks down and two or more independent personalities emerge". According to the psychiatry, there is no special category or phenomenon about split personality. Previously, it was once stated that the example of split personality was schizophrenia. But then it was found out that it was a misleading conclusion to say that schizophrenic personals are examples of split personality. Schizophrenia is a condition when someone has a great struggle to keep and maintain the coherence and integrity.

Specifically, there are three different meanings about the term of 'personality,' whereas the two of them are general and popular and the third is technical and philosophical. The most general meaning is the first one that explains that personality is the sum of the characteristics which compose physical and mental being, such as manners, appearance, tastes, habits, and moral character. The second meaning describes the characteristics that differentiate between one and another. Furthermore, the third meaning is considerably the most important among all. This meaning is merely the only conception of any value to the psychic researcher and the philosopher or psychologist. It means that personals have the conception of personality that emphasizes only with characteristic. There are no difference between common and specific marks. Moreover, this third meaning is also extremely different with the previous two meanings and it attracts continuous misunderstandings between the philosopher and the public mainly about the discussion of survival after death.

Back to the discussion about split personality, it will be necessary to trace its history to learn that this split personality is really a disease that attack personals' mind. Medical literature reported that the cases of split personality probably had been occurring since early 19th century and the situation was formally defined in the first years of 20th. Even though the cases of split personality are really rare, the facts about people with this disease were become more common in the 1980s. The publicity of a book entitled Sybil, a story of a woman who lives with 16 personalities made an innovation that concluded the idea of multiple personalities caused by someone's childhood trauma.

In addition, below are the facts about people with split personalities. The first person is William S. Milligan, a person with 24 personalities and each of the personality has different appearance and manner, the first ten dominant personalities in the mind of Billy Milligan are Billy, Arthur, Leigen, Allen, Tommy, Danny, David, Christine, Christopher, and Adarana. The second is Claudia Ellen Yascow who had killed four people but then found out to have mind problems.

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Friday, July 30, 2010

Pick Up Hot Women - 5 Hints You Should Know!

By Charlie Valentino

Here's a few tricks i will show you to help you pick up hot women! You must promise to use these tricks with caution as they're very strong. Anyhow without further ado, here is how to pick up hot women.

1. Look Your Best - No matter what you've been informed, looks do count for quite a lot! Lady's are afterall looking for alluring genes to pass down to their children. You don't need to be good looking but it helps, you can still easily know how to pick up women as long as you're well groomed! So be well groomed! Next, if you look your best you will feel more sure of yourself, which will make her more attracted to you than your looks ever will!

2. Go Direct - If you've never attempted going direct on a woman then you really should try it! You will make her day and stand out immediately! Just go up to her and say "hey, i saw you from over there and i just had to come over and say hi, as i think you are beautiful!"

If you've never tried it then you will never know how it feels to completely make a ladies day! Give it a try!

3. Dont Hesitate - If you hesitate then the moment will go by and you'll start making reasons why you should not approach her! This is extremely sinful! If you see her, approach her!

4. Be Primed - Be prepared with a transition! The best way to do this is by recognizing something on her that you actually really like and compliment her on it instantly after you have gone direct! So if you like the way she's dressed tell her, and talk about something precise! Say that it is very unusual to see a lady in your town who is very stylish!

5. Practice - That is the most part of it, there is more but i could tell you all the techniques in the world and they will mean nothing if you do not practice. So give it a try the next time you see that lady!

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Thursday, July 29, 2010

How And Where To Find Wealthy More Aged Men Online

By Areelitaha Joahlanski

If you are looking for an more aged and rich guy who is well secured financially and can supply you with the kind of life style that you always wanted but were unable to have because from the lack of a great bank account, then maybe you're one from the many young women who are interested in knowing where to discover wealthy older males online.

This kind of guy is recognized to many as being a sugar daddy. An more aged guy who just loves the company of a fine youthful good looking lady. For the young lady, having an more aged rich guy will permit her to have the type of freedom of never being concerned about working once again. As he will supply for the her the points she was never capable to afford prior to in her life.

He is really a guy who might have reached a certain point in life in regard to his wealth, status and career, and could be looking for a more youthful woman without a serious relationship.

It's not as well hard to see why sugar daddy dating is getting a very popular niche of this online dating today. It seems to help bring together those individuals who're in search from the finer things in life.

These more youthful women do admit the reasons for this concept of meeting up with older wealthy males is too be treated more better as a person. There are large numbers of these ladies who're quite willing and really ready to join these websites in hopes of becoming capable to connect with one of this rich more aged males and by becoming a member of those websites they shall have their opportunity to find them.

These type of websites do offer a way for youthful women and more aged rich males can meet one another by the use of chatting, virtual kisses, some private emails or messages. The websites contains many men who are married and are looking for some extra marital affairs with more youthful women.

So should you be a youthful and appealing woman who is interested in living a much more richer life style there are quite lots of ways that more youthful women can meet these older wealthy guys, such as chat rooms, private emails, virtual kisses and some instant chatting. The women can so browse many photo galleries as well. These sites can allow women to tell just what kind of more aged men they are interested in meeting.

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Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Four Ways To Save Your Marriage

By Areelitaha Joahlanski

Being happy in your marriage may sometimes seem like an unobtainable goal. Over time your unhappiness can turn into feelings of resentment. We begin to blame our spouse for everything that may be wrong with the relationship. Once this has happened, it may seem impossible to get past it. The good news is that with some hard work on both of your parts it is almost always possible to fix a broken marriage. Heres are some suggestions that may help you to save your marriage.

Know Your Feelings

Before you can fix the way that you feel you must understand why you feel that way. Arguments lead to anger and hard feelings, but what is the real reason for the arguments. If you are truthful with yourself and your spouse does the same, you will probably discover that although on the surface the fights are about many things, the real reasons are all the same. Perhaps one spouse feels ignored or that their needs are not being met. Maybe one spouse is too controlling and the other feels like their opinion doesn't matter. Whatever the truth is, if you can discover these reasons then you can start to fix the real problems.

Don't Lie

Being honest is not always an easy thing to do. However, if you want to save your marriage you will need to be completely honest, not only with your spouse but more importantly with yourself. If you aren't, the resentment and anger that has been building throughout your marriage will never go away. Be honest about what makes you feel angry or hurt, but also be honest about what you need to be happy.

Forget the Past

All of us make mistakes on a daily basis. Granted, some errors are larger than others, but you need to find a way to let go of the hurt and anger on a daily basis. If you allow the anger to stay it will grow. Every new mistake will build on the previous ones and soon you will spend most of your time angry. It is very hard to reconcile your differences if you are angry all of the time.

Get Outside Help

Finding a good counselor may be the best solution. The right person can not only provide a sounding board for you to bounce you feelings off of, but they can give impartial advice. If you decide to go to marriage counseling, you must both be willing to listen and honestly try to make use of the advice he or she is offering.

Trying to save your marriage can be a long and difficult road to travel. Keep in mind that the end result will be a partnership that may strengthen both of you.

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Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Great Tips For Saving Marriage

By Areelitaha Joahlanski

Every now and again, couples will run into a brick wall and feel that the marriage is just about to come to an end. For some couples, they feel that saving marriage is not even an option and that everything is simply too far-gone. If you do not want to flush your marriage down the toilet, then look at they simple ways that you and your spouse can look into when trying to save a marriage.

Many people who run into trouble within their marriage tend to take the easy way out and go for a divorce. This can make any situation even worse, especially if you have children together. You may want to look into getting into marriage counseling that can help you get down to the root of your issues.

Most couples do not even realize that they are having communication issues until it is nearly to late. If the two of you are constantly arguing, you cannot call this communication. In order to get on top of this matter, you may want to go out to dinner at a favorite restaurant and just sit down and talk. This way, you will be able to keep control of your temper and you will be able to listen to your significant other. Those of you, who have trouble forming words together, may want to look into other forms of communication. This can includes letters, notes, even emails that can describe how you are feeling and what you want out of a marriage.

You may also want to reflect on yourself and find out if you have built up some sort of wall that is blocking your spouse. Some couples of deep emotional issues that need to be talked about and address in order to save a marriage from the confines of divorce. Look deep inside of yourself to find out, if your emotions may be causing problems in your marriage. You can even sit down with a counselor all on your own; if you feel that the issues are personally coming from you.

Another great thing that you can do on your own is get with a therapist or a guidance counselor without your spouse. This is great for those who have personal issues that they are dealing with and it can really clear the air. You can even bring your spouse in and discuss what is bothering you when you are ready.

What you need to do is simply sit down and talk, or sit with a counselor and have the counselor mediate and monitor the situation. It is not going to do you any good to simply throw your hands up and quit so give it a shot and try again.

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Monday, July 26, 2010

To Save Your Marriage, Stop Talking!

By Areelitaha Joahlanski

This is going to sound totally illogical at first, but stop and consider whether the way to ultimately save your marriage is to just stop talking to one another as often. Most assume that they need to talk as often as possible if they want to work things out, but the way they end up talking can lead to more harm than good.

A therapist's couch is where most couples end up when the marriage turns sour. They start out angry and upset, and often it is an uncomfortable position to be in that causes a lot of anxiety. Yet, after a few sessions some couples start to become closer again and work out their issues. Others will continue to make the sessions unpleasant and will never work anything out.

So, what makes the difference here between couples that can essentially talk out their problems and others that cannot?

The difference is that the couples who are successful with talk therapy eventually realize that it's not the talking that saves the marriage! It's the process of really hearing what each person has to say and then taking deliberate actions in daily life to fix the problems that ultimately saves the marriage.

The key is listening, not talking. Couples therapists can be a great tool, as long as you use them in the right way. Two people staring bitterly at the floor, breath sucked in tight, waiting for their turn to spill all the dirt and get even with the other person, will likely never work anything out. You have to actually listen to one another.

If you are going to try to talk things out, pay attention to what happens after each session. There will always be some sort of action at every moment of every day, and it's the action after a talk session that will ultimately determine your chances of really working things out. If you both storm to opposite corners or have a huge screaming match, chances are low of coming out successful.

Yet, if you can really listen to one another in the therapists office or even just while sitting down for an honest conversation, then you have a fighting chance. You don't need months of sessions or months of at-home fighting to fix a marriage. What you need is a short period of honest discussion followed by action.

Instead of storming out of such a session with anger, you should storm out thinking of ways to make things better. Then take action! It's what you ultimately do, not say, that is going to eventually save your marriage or allow it to self-destruct and erode even further.

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Sunday, July 25, 2010

Trying Online Marriage Counseling For Your Marriage

By Areelitaha Joahlanski

There are lots of times we wonder what we have gotten ourselves into problems start to arise in a marriage. Online marriage counseling is an option that can give marriages a new start. No longer do you have to spend hours going to see a marriage counselor. Now it can all be accomplished from the convenience of your own home.

The internet has numerous websites that suggest ways that people can help a marriage that is destructing. This is great for people that refuse to talk to strangers about the problems that they have. Websites like Save My Marriage Today have been a lifesaver to many marriages. It gives a whole new option to what a person can do in trying to restore their relationship. It offers a lot of helpful ideas and recommendations to people looking to get the marriage back to the way it was in the beginning.

There are many online marriage counseling services that are available now. They all offer there own unique ideas on how to get the great marriage that was once had back. But Save My Marriage Today, seems to have accomplished a lot of the things that the other sites have but in a far shorter time frame. Seeing results quickly is something that everyone wants to avoid even further frustration from setting in. There is nothing worse than getting even more frustrated with a difficult situation.

The author offers sound advice on what things need to be done to achieve the bliss that you are seeking. Step by step techniques are given that will help you to understand what your own needs are as well as those of your partner. How to get the passion back that you once had in your marriage is another thing that she will help with. The list is very extensive and covers any problem imaginable that can evolve in a marriage.

Having been tried by many people, they all attest that her system works and it works fast! The comments from the people that have tried her E-course have made it seem like a dream come true for those that want to help their troubled marriage.

The money that you save can be put into things that can bring the spice back to your marriage. Look around the internet at the options available today and I am sure that you will see what I mean.

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Saturday, July 24, 2010

Untold Rules Of Online Dating

By Ryan Copeland

The amount of internet dating sites have proliferated to such extend they are almost everywhere and in great numbers. Internet dating opens a window permitting the massive numbers of possible partners to meet one another is a relaxed and reasonable way of meeting folks, making chums. Meeting a lady online is harder than meeting her in the real world. In face to face meeting you may use the body language, voice tone, and also eye contacts in your favor, but with online dating this is not practicable. If you don't play the few cards you have right, she'll skip right past your e-mail, and this time you will not have a second chance. Although, more singles are using web dating services. But not so many of them know that there are some unwritten rules, tricks and tips which will make the internet dating experience better. Therefore these are some examples of the rules that you should really know before beginning online dating. First and the most vital is that you do not have to expect from the start at too much. Online dating is a technique. So, it will take time, lots of patience to search, screen and e-mail, talk and date before you succeed. Remember that, and do not be too keen when you see a fascinating profile.

The real booboo manufactured by the people that use web dating services is if they fail once in meeting a compatible person as a partner, they give up and try something else. But, as I pointed out, you need to have patience and to go on a few dates to find the ideal match. Take a little time to reply. Perhaps your instincts will most likely tell you to reply to mails from prospective dates immediately. If you answer to your e-mail too shortly, this can be understood as being desperate for a date, and everyone knows and avoids desperate folk because at a certain moment they can become too possessive. If you wait for a period of time, you can improve your standings, so you have enough time to compose a suitable reply, and also to investigate the individual who seems interested by your profile to work out if you'd be a probable match. Take it slowly. The secret to turning an electronic dating site attraction in a lasting relationship is to go at a pragmatic pace. Generally online dating internet sites incline to make fast connections between individuals that crash and burn, so to make things last, slow them down.

When you compose your profile you have got to be fair, consider the fact the truth will be exposed when you meet her in the flesh.

Trust is critical in any relationship so it's better to not risk sabotaging. If you need to meet her sometime, she'll feel disappointed when she'll see that you laid her. If you make a decision to answer at a mail keep the tone light and genial.

Keep your dialog easy and general initially, while becoming familiar with the individual you are conversing with. Be conservative with what you write, remember that till you actually come to grasp the individual to the other end, do not give out non-public information's about yourself, for example home address, place of employment...Also is better to avoid talking about sex on your internet profile and while you talk to potential friends. After you open up contact with someone who you believe it may interest you, take it slow in becoming familiar with her better, now you've got the chance to exchange applicable details about one another. However only meet when you're prepared. If somebody is pushing or pressuring you to rendezvous with her before you feel comfy, just say you're not actually there, but you would like to continue speaking. If you choose to go to your first meeting, the ideal place is a coffee bar in the daytime. If the individual who shows up doesn't meet your expectancies, cut the meeting short and go your way. Always be mannered, regardless of what. Also, do not get daunted. If you have send out 1 or 2 messages and few winks and you have gotten only a small part of the responses you were in hope of, do not get daunted and keep trying. Try looking over your messages impartially and see what could help generate more replies.

Good luck!

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Friday, July 23, 2010

How To Fix Marriage Problems - How You Talk Really Matters

By Areelitaha Joahlanski

It doesn't really matter how far gone you suspect your marital relationship may be right now. If you have the desire to try and rekindle the emotion and spark that was once there, then it is time to reconsider the way in which you communicate with your spouse. The fastest way to fix marriage problems is to change the dialogue that is exchanged between the two people.

There is one big difference between many couples who work out their problems and move onto a happy future and those that end in ruin: excellent communication skills. If you think you already have this and it isn't a problem, you are not alone. In fact, many people who come at their spouses all wrong and set up conflict often believe they have impeccable communication skills.

It is highly likely that you are doing this without knowing it. Something as simple as the tone of your voice or the exact words chosen to express a feeling can shut down the line of communication before it actually opens.

What you need to ultimately do is somehow set aside all of those emotions that are so intense and raw at the moment. You need an all new skill set in order to get past that wall your spouse has erected and start to repair the damage with real conversations about how you both feel and what you want.

First, make sure to initiate conversations at a time that is convenient and comfortable for your spouse. Don't approach them right after they walk in the door from a hard day of work or as they try to figure out how to get all the bills paid when the checking account is short.

Next, you want to ensure that the way you open the conversation does not make them anticipate a fight. If they think you are upset with them or that you are blaming them for something they will immediately pull away instead of opening themselves to you.

Finally, take the time prior to this meeting to figure out exactly what you want to say, or even write it down. Carefully phrase every single line so that you never state things that place blame. You want to just focus on yourself and your own feelings. Stating your love for them is another great move.

You can start to fix marriage problems with a method such as this, but you cannot expect huge steps forward to be made right away. This will start to open the door for better communications so that the heart of your problems can be aired and eventually corrected.

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