Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Beautiful Flowers - A Valentine's Day Staple

By Adriana Noton

How Valentine's Day evolved is a fascinating story. In early Roman times, the Roman Feast of Lupercalia was a celebration of pagan fertility held on February 14 that honored the Queen of Oman known as Juno, the Roman gods and goddesses, as well as the goddess of marriage and women. During the celebrations, women would write special love letters and place the letters in an urn. The men would then retrieve a letter from the urn and passionately court the woman who wrote the particular love letter.

The most well known origin of Valentine's Day comes from a 3rd century Roman priest by the name of Valentine. Against the explicit orders of Emperor Claudius II, Valentine performed secret marriages. The Emperor prohibited marriages because he thought that unmarried soldiers were more apt to enlist in his army. Valentine was caught and sentenced to death. The story says that Valentine conveyed a letter to a friend which was signed 'From Your Valentine' just prior to his execution on February 14 in 270 A.D. In 496 A.D., in honor of St. Valentine as the patron saint of lovers, Pope Gelasius named St. Valentine's Day on February 14th. Ever since that time, people all over the world have been celebrating Valentines Day.

Flowers have become a staple of Valentines Day. The rose as a symbol of love, is the most widely used flower to give someone on Valentine's Day, especially the traditional bouquet of a dozen red roses. Over the years there have an increase in the diversity of flowers chosen for the special day. Different types of roses include multi-colored roses, white roses, red roses, yellow roses, long stemmed roses, pink roses, and special valentine roses. Other types of flowers now chosen include: carnations, lilies, hyacinths, crocuses, buttercups, tulips, and daisies. Men will send a beautiful bouquet of flowers to their special sweetheart. When giving Valentine flowers as gifts to men, popular colors of flowers include purple, orange, and red. Women love such colors as red, lavender, peach, and pink.

By giving a flower to your special loved one, you are expressing how you feel about that person. The choice of Valentine's Day flowers will depend on the sentiments you want to express.

For instance, a red rose expresses strong feelings and love. Lilac roses are a symbol of love at first sight. Peach Pink rose is a symbol of gratitude, sympathy, gentleness and friendship. Red Roses and White Roses mixed in a bouquet means truth and love, union and harmony, or true love. Lily means that one is a nurturing person. A red carnation means admiration. A white Carnation means pure love, faithfulness, innocence, and sweet and lovely. Chamomile/Golden Marguerite/Anthemis means cheerfulness and friendship. Iris means promise in love, wisdom, faith, and hope. Purple Lilac means the first emotions of love. Ambrosia means love is reciprocated. Pink Camellia means longing for you. White Chrysanthemum means truth and loyal love. Forget-Me-Not means true love, hope, and memories. Gloxina means love at first sight. Pansy means the recipient is being thought about warmly. Yellow and orange roses being mixed together means passionate thoughts. A yellow tulip means hopeless love.

Valentines Day is a day to let that special someone how you feel. Giving flowers to your loved one is a thoughtful and romantic way to share your sentiments.

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Monday, March 8, 2010

What To Do To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

By Steven Connolly

There will never be such thing as a good break up and anyone who has ever gone through one will confirm this. Break ups have that way of making us look at ourselves in a very different light and make us re-evaluate ourselves. Break ups are so moving that it can make even the toughest men shed a tear or two.

When a heart gets broken, it often craves for advice whether they are solicited or unsolicited, good or bad. And often, the most common advices have something to do with letting go and moving on.

Sometimes, the only way to survive a break up is to get your ex girlfriend back.

When it comes to attempting a reconciliation, there is no tried and tested method of doing so.

Everything involves great ounce of patience and hard work in order for you to get your ex girlfriend back. But because women tend to be more forgiving then men, making up may not be far ahead.

Keeping a respectful distance from an ex is only but normal right after a break up. Really, would you even consider wanting to talk to somebody who has shown you the door?

Another thing, there's going to be that air of awkwardness that will deter anyone of you from picking up that phone. Not to mention being labeled as desperate.

But if you really want to get your ex girlfriend back, you must be the first one to reach out.

There are so many means of doing so in this age. You can send a short email or probably a simple text message. Both are effective in making you visible.

Lastly, if you want to be in her "maybe" list and not in her "exes: do not resuscitate" list, then always be thoughtful enough to remember all special dates which includes birthdays and the holidays.

Women can't resist the thought of being cared for and being the center of one's universe. A greeting card can create that impression.

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Sunday, March 7, 2010

You Can Get Free Marriage Counseling

By Sabrina Summerfield

This short article is an introduction to where you might be able to obtain free marriage counseling. Of course, if money is no object, you can and should be looking for the best marriage counselor you can find. Trust me when I say a divorce, especially one where minor children are involved, is worth saving if at all possible. But getting back to free marriage counseling: the cost of marriage counseling - especially for a couple that is fighting about money - can be prohibitive. But that doesn't mean there's no help available. There is help out there and this is where to look.

Were you married in a religious ceremony? United Church? Roman Catholic? Presbyterian? Jewish? Muslim? Religious organizations deliver thousands upon thousands of hours of free (or pay what you can) marriage counseling every year.

Catholic Family Service is the one of the largest non-governmental family service organizations in the world. In North America Catholic Family Services delivers over twenty thousand hours of free marriage counseling every year. If you were married in the Roman Catholic Church and you are in need of marriage counseling, contact your parish office or simply look in the White Pages.

In the Jewish community Jewish Family Services organizations are established on an as-needed basis and are run entirely from within the local community. Counseling services offered tend to be extensive. As with Catholic Family Services, the organizations identify themselves with the name of the organization followed by, "of ..." If you live in Cleveland, for example, simply enter "Jewish Family Services of Cleveland" in any search engine and the correct website will pop up.

The Islamic Circle of North America is a social service group dedicated to establishing Islam, "in all spheres of life." The ICNA, though its ICNA Relief USA arm, offers marriage counseling and other counseling services through Muslim Family Services.

Other faiths all have there own marriage counseling services, though most are not as organized as Catholic Family Service, Jewish Family Services or Muslim Family Services.

For couples who were joined in a civil ceremony, it is noted that, like churches, governments have a vested interest in stable families, and an even more pressing interested in assisting unstable marriages. Contact social services in your municipality to find out what service might be available for you and your spouse.

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Saturday, March 6, 2010

Information About Online Dating

By Rebecca Jackson

From getting access to huge sources of information on nay subject, to using and sharing electronic mail to finding life companions and relationships, everything is now achievable online. Fundamentally the web is a new world, which should be called the official world. Since the Net was born, online dating and relationship finding tools became highly regarded. The facility to find someone that matches your specs, and what you want in a companion, is only a mouse click away.

Normally the most common places to meet people are at clubs, bars, events, balls, community gatherings, friends of friends, but now internet dating has made it hundred times easier to find someone who meets your criteria, or has similar characteristics as you. The benefits of it are endless.

The new digital age of finding potential partners online, has come at the right time, because everybody's's lifes are turning into a faced paced life style, and don't have much time to manually search for others.

online dating databases and sites, keep getting better. As more folks are signing up the competitors in this industry is skyrocketing, therefore making these sites to speculate in new paths to match people with others. They are always exploring new leading edge angles, and finding out what their customers really need.

There are also many online dating sites to suit many dating niches. For example there are sites on midget dating, demographic dating, religious dating, intimate dating encounters, dating sites for swingers, seniors, people with particular hobbies, etc.

The US was the first country to venture into the web dating world, it become so favored over that that it has now expanded all around the globe. Most major countries int he world, have some kind of major site which usually dominates the online dating market.

No longer are people confined to finding people at clubs, nightclubs, pubs, social meetings, etc. They can turn to online dating, which makes the process ten times faster, easier, and extremely efficient. Its a very straight forward process, simply login, do a search based on what you want in another person, your geographic location, and then all relevant profiles will pop up, you simply message the person, generate enough internet, so you meet up in real life.

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Friday, March 5, 2010

Love And Relationship Authority Empowers Women To Take Control

By Christian Bordner

Love and relationship authority empowers women to take control within their relationships, says Amber Leigh Salisbury, aka Amber the Love Coach. Amber has been a Relationship Expert for a number of years and has helped to empower many women the world over, no matter what their situation.

Tired, alone, bad relationship history - if those words describe you, then you might want to consider love coaching by a Relationship Expert. Even those of us who are in relationships may sometimes feel that the sparks have gone. Relationship counseling to the rescue! Love coaching will help take the passion within your relationship to new heights.

Your love coaching will start with a goal setting session where you will discover where you are at and where you want to be in the short term and in the long term. You will then go on to removing the issues that are holding you back from attracting the right lover and the right relationship for you. You will learn how to identify believes that have held you back from receiving the love that you truly deserve and find out what it is that you want in a partner and a relationship.

Love coaching by a Relationship Expert will help you to find your own natural charisma that will help to attract a partner that will appreciate your inner and outer beauty. Your confidence will receive a boost and you will captivate the attention of potential suitors.

When you attend love coaching in order to enhance an existing relationship, you need to be sure that you are not the only one to sacrifice. Your partner needs to also contribute. Whenever one partner feels that they are giving more, they are likely to become resentful and feel that they are being controlled. When the partner who gives up everything then starts to hold back, the other partner might get argumentative.

In order to build a successful relationship, both parties need to share authority and control within the relationship. Neither party should be in control of the other person. There has to be a balance, give and take. You should not be a pushover. You should stand up for your beliefs and your ideas, yet value the ideas and values of your partner.

Let Amber the love coach helps you to as she has helped many other women. Her courses in love and relationship authority empower women to take control of their part in the relationship and help increase their sense of self.

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Thursday, March 4, 2010

Does The Magic Of Making Up Really Work?

By Manuel Wortman

Break ups are probably the most difficult things that we as human being have to endure. There are so many ways that you can have your heart broken but the experience is universal.

Going through a break up is something which most of us have probably gone through so I need not explain further on the agonies of it.

However, what remains the perpetual issue immediately after a break up is what to do. It's always like that. You're broken up, now what? For women, it may include stuffing one's face with all the ice cream.

For some, there's booze. For women, there's ice cream. But really, the only thing that could actually make us feel better is getting our ex back.

Most of us will probably shoot for the stars and aim to get your ex back. But the only problem is that you will be in a very unstable state. You will be volatile, and the pain and the hurt will make it very hard for anyone to think straight. All the emotions will impair your being rational.

What anyone in that situation needs is a plan. A clear strategy that is complete with all the timings that are necessary to get anyone back.

There are a lot of questions which you will be facing when in the process of winning her or him back. You will argue with yourself on what to say to her or him, or how to devise a way to meet her or him.

Your hopeless romantic friends may give you all the advice but you can't find the psychology that you find behind Magic of Making Up. What this system actually offers are answers to the questions that you will encounter. But most importantly, the process is very natural with all the right timings so that your ex won't think that you are getting help.

However, the success of Magic of Making up relies on your ability to stay with the program and follow all the details that it includes. Determination and sincerity is the key to getting your lover back.

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Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Is That Dreamy Guy For Me?

By Alan Bentley

So, here is the agonizing question that you are asking yourself. You are sitting alone in your favorite watering hole on a Friday evening after work and across the other side of the room is this totally dreamy guy. Is it your imagination or is he casting the odd glance or two in your direction as well? This is the million-dollar question, is he interested in you at all and what will happen if you pluck up the courage that you know you have, deep down within you and do something about it?

Society tells us that a man may approach a woman under pretty much any kind of situation to initiate a conversation. It's unheard of for a girl to do this conversely, even though we are supposed to live in the liberated society. So what happens when you come across a dreamy guy? As a girl, do you have to be stealthy or creative?

Unless you are super confident, many of us tend to put ourselves down a little and wonder whether we would be of interest to the typical dreamy guy who is in your thoughts. You tend to think that all the good-looking men are accounted for and that there are a variety of other girls lining up to fight for his attention. This is when you have to gather all your confidence about you and take action!

Dreamy guys are interested in you whether you happen to look like Miss USA or not. Beauty is only skin deep and there is a lot more to dating than this. Hopefully there will be much more to him than just good looks and personality to match.

It can be very difficult to take the first few steps in dating sometimes, but it's okay to be creative. Just don't come across as if you are desperate in any way and seeking any type of interaction with this guy. He might well be thinking that if you bring your existence to his attention, everything will go smoothly from there!

You had better come to a super quick conclusion if you are thinking about whether you should date the dreamy guy you have your eye on. If he happens to say yes, you must have all your self-confidence about you as you know there will be other potential temptations around in the future. Without this level of confidence in yourself, any future relationship could be in danger.

Underneath the super confident and attractive exterior, men are still looking for stability and a partner, just as you are. The longer that you worry about rejection the less likely you will be able to take action and to go over and talk to the dreamy guy right now. When people say -- "what's the worst that could happen," -- this is a great saying. After all, nothing ventured, nothing gained, right?

Many people love the game of "people watching." This is a great deal of fun if you are in a busy location such as an airport or a crowded mall. Just look at the dreamy guy coming towards you right now, where has he been all his life and where is he going? You never know, he might be headed right for you...

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Tuesday, March 2, 2010

For Women: Make Use of Free Dating to Find Soul Mate

By Vanessa Cruz

Call it free dating because the date is totally free from burden. The main point is you get the "nothing to lose" feeling. It is important to make yourself feel rich and confident, just as it is important to not be too pushy to men you have just known for few months. Finding a soul mate should forgo the burdens of a desperate woman. Otherwise you will never get through with the search. Finally, call if free dating to let your heart be independent during the search. Here are some rules to obey:

1. Ensure yourself that you are valuable and lovable. When a man does not show his passion for you, it does not mean you are not missing some values, not beautiful, or not attractive. Get rid of such feelings because everyone is supposed to have his/her soul mate. It is just coincidence that meets you at the right time. But wait, should not be just coincidence. It is also about your mindset and self acknowledgement. Every time you know a new man, don't let the burden and negative feelings coming in. You are not going to lose any part of life with the experience. It is fine when you can not go on the relationship. Make it nothing to lose until you reach a comfortable point of yourself.

2. If you are going out for a date, just let the man pays the bills. You can offer to pay after some few dates. If he is interested in you, it would be his pride to manage the first dates perfectly, which he does to know you deeper. If he is interested in you, you can take your time until you feel comfortable to tell more. Never be in rush and never feel afraid that you will lose the chance. Try not to involve too much until you are ready for a farther step.

3. While that, keep yourself looking great and well-dressed. Be open to know new people as you can compare better when there are more picks. You do not have to tell too much during the first dates. Just be positive and natural.

4. Take your time easy. The more time you let the relationship or introductory period flows, the better you will know him and your feeling. Too much flowery feeling may not be a good sign, because you may not realize if you are facing a sweet talker. It is best to emphasize on how well he treats you and how comfortable you feel during the meetings. Such facts are more reliable in long term.

5. Playing hard to get is not a truly effective way. If a man asks you out and you say yes in minutes, it does not mean you are easy to get. Rather, just follow what you really want. And if you decide to go, just make the conversations appealing and wide. A refusal, just for the sake of making a new man curious, can lose you the chance to know a nice man considerably. Keep in mind that you are open to know any new one. Roll in the chances and decide later.

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Monday, March 1, 2010

Foolproof Tooth Brightening Tips

By Angela Rose

Who doesn't want their smile to reveal brilliant rows of white teeth? Nobody likes yellowing teeth, but everybody finds a nice white smile attractive.

As far as our teeth are concerned, we're in a better situation than we have been for 20 years, thanks to advances made in dental science. It's hard to find a toothpaste these days that doesn't make your teeth whiter.

Toothpastes to help whiten teeth did exist 20 years ago, but there were very few of them. Also, they cost a lot, so not many people could afford them.

Things are so much easier now. Here are four easy and effective methods of whitening teeth for you to try.

There are strips available for this purpose. Normally, they have to be applied to the teeth one or two times per day for a couple of weeks. It's important to stick to the routine and if you do, you can be sure to have great results.

Another way is to go for a UV treatment. In this method, a combination of ultraviolet rays and a gel are used to brighten up your smile. Some malls even have UV treatment kiosks you can visit. You walk away with instantly whiter teeth.

You can also opt for porcelain veneers on your teeth. They will never stain and are good for at least ten years.

The last way to keep you teeth white is really just common sense. Certain foods and drinks can make plaque and stains form on your teeth. Dark colas, coffees and iced teas are know culprits. Try to avoid them, but if you do drink one, make sure you clean your teeth soon after.

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Sunday, February 28, 2010

Marriage Counseling And The Options

By Sabrina Summerfield

Stress and anxiety arise from many things; marriage is a huge one of them. Deciding to get help is a huge step people take and a scary thought for many of them. Marriage counseling is a choice that can be made in an effort to get things back on track. Conventional options are not all that is available today, now that we have the internet.

Physical and emotional problems can all be caused from stress that stems from marital problems. The inability to control feelings can cause a lot of damage as well. Many factors can cause these feelings within a marriage. Lack of intimacy, communication issues, these are just a few of them. Traditional routes of marriage counseling have been the only option until now.

There are tons of websites that offer this type of service. Save My Marriage Today is one such website. It offers the help that many are looking for at a fraction of the cost of other methods of counseling.

The woman that developed this website has been an enthusiastic and well known writer on relationship topics for years. Her knowledge and insight bring a new light to situations that people think are lost forever. No matter what the issue may be in your marriage she has ideas that can help. Her determination to lower the divorce rate has been proven to be successful with her E-course. All she wants is to see people get the happy relationships that they seek.

Couples of any kind can find issues in the E-course that she created that are applicable to the situation that they are in. No matter what the problem is she has covered it in the Save My Marriage Today E-course. All she want is to see people happy with their partners and have a life of love. This brings a whole new meaning to marriage counseling. Save money, save time, why not?

Lots of people have been helped with her system. More and more all the time are giving there opinions on the system that she developed. Not one has had negative results. This makes it even more appealing when you know that others have been aided with her assistance. Not to mention the lower pricing! This is only one of many options that are available regarding marriage counseling. Cruise the net and see what is there, you will be amazed!

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Saturday, February 27, 2010

Jewelry 101 - The Ancient Greek and Roman Contributions.

By Betsy Johnson

The Greeks were known for a lot of incredible things, but little is known of their jewelry. The first true examples we have of Ancient Greek Jewelry is pieces that utilize beads shaped in the form of various animals and shells. Around--00 B.C. they started to utilize gemstones and gold into their various jewelry designs. By the time 300 B.C. had rolled around, they had ventured into the area of colored jewelry that utilized amethysts, pearls, and emeralds. They made cameos from a striped down pink and cream agate known as the Indian Sardonyx. As was the case with most cultures, Greek jewelry designs started off simply, but as time progressed, they grew increasingly more elaborate and complex.

The people of Ancient Greece did not wear jewelry in their daily lives. It was worn during special events, occasions, or public appearances. A common gift for women, it was displayed to show off not only their incredible beauty, but also their social status and tremendous wealth. It was thought that jewelry had mystical powers. Many believed that it could ward off the "Evil Eye" (a look that one person could send your way that would bring you injury or other forms of bad luck). Most of the Greek jewelry of this time period was made from (1) silver, (2) gold, (3) ivory, (4) gemstones, (5) clay, and (6) bronze.

The Ancient Greeks developed two types of jewelry. These types were: (1) cast jewelry pieces and (2) those that were formulated by hammering out sheet metal. We have only a few examples of these cast jewelry pieces available today. They were made by casting the metal onto two moulds made out of either clay or stone. These two moulds were joined together with wax, and molten metal was poured into the center of the mould. This technique had been passed down since the Ancient Bronze Age. Jewelry made from hammering sheet metal was much more common. Sheet metal was hammered to the desired thickness, and then soldered together.

The Ancient Romans also had jewelry designs as part of their culture. The brooch, an item used to secure clothing together, was the most common example of early Roman jewelry. The Roman Empire was vast and huge, and the Romans took full advantage of this size, incorporating a diverse range of materials from far and wide. In the earlier years they utilized a lot of glass beads and pearls, but in later years they utilized bronze and bone and gold. Imported sapphires from Sri Lanka and Indian diamond (along with amber and emeralds), were also incorporated into their jewelry designs.

The Ancient Romans followed the belief set by the Ancient Romans, and felt that jewelry could be used to ward off the "Evil Eye" (a wish from one's enemies that could bring injury or other harm). Women often wore jewelry all over their bodies, while men often only wore a ring on one of their fingers. Some men used their own personal taste and wore a number of rings on a number of fingers.

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Friday, February 26, 2010

Some Advice About A Young Russian Woman And Older Western Men

By Mark De Schutter

It should be apparent that the combination of a young Russian woman and older western men is fraught with danger. Why would a young woman from any culture prefer an older man unless her motives were suspicious? While it is certainly a question to keep in the forefront of your mind, on occasion they have perfectly legitimate reasons for their preference. How can you tell?

Before you think about what a younger woman might want with an older Western man, you should take a hard look at your own desires. Are you primarily wanting to find a young sexual partner that you can't find in your own country? If so, you may find what you're looking for, but the price you are likely to pay is high, both financially and emotionally. If you think you will be able to take advantage of her, you're wrong. She holds all the cards. If you think Russian girls prefer sex with older men, you're just mistaken.

On the other hand, if you're looking for a genuine marital relationship with a Russian woman regardless of her age or attractiveness, you have a chance of finding what you want. You just need to be reasonable and cautious.

Most women, young or older, long for fidelity in a marriage or partnership. Sometimes, a young Russian woman has been cheated on by younger men too many times before. She is sick of it and starts looking for a relationship with a more mature gentleman.

An older man's attractiveness to young women often lies in his ability to offer them a higher degree of financial stability than young men can. This does not necessarily equate with their being "gold diggers" looking for a "sugar daddy" to take care of them. If they are sincere and emotionally mature, they may understand that any relationship involves mutual duties and responsibilities, including marital fidelity.

Romantic love as the foundation for a successful marriage is a peculiarly Western notion. Historically, most cultures have been more pragmatic. Arranged marriages were the norm. That may sound cold and calculating, but in fact, many lifelong loving relationships have started just that way, while romantic relationships often fail after just a few years.

A young Russian woman and older western men turn to online dating sites and introduction agencies for a suitable mate. The service you choose will be the key to your success or failure. If you go to a site that has a large number of active subscribers from a variety of backgrounds, you are on the right track. If, however, you go to a site that features scantily clad young women "longing" for an older man just like you, don't waste your time.

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Thursday, February 25, 2010

Capturing Those Special Pics At Your Wedding Event

By Jude Smith

When you are planning your wedding you are going to want to find an event photographer. You will want them to possess a few qualities such as style, motivation, experience and good communication. Event photographers will only possess these qualities if they are well trained, so make sure they have experience so they can focus on what you want.

Every event photographer will have their own style. You will want to make sure that your ideas about your wedding will coincide with their style. If you don't you could up with a horrible experience. Depending on the style that your event photographer will use will vary. Traditional and wild are two extreme styles of photographers. Traditional pictures will consist of those of the bride herself, the groom himself, the bride and groom together, the wedding party, and everyone all together. Making funny faces and having completely serious faces might be considered a wild style.

An event photographer should be highly motivated, try to find one who is. You do not want to have someone who is inactive and sitting around missing all the good pictures they could be capturing. Motivation isn't just about doing the job, but enjoying it and communicating are also involved.

Over time is the only way an event photographer will gain experience. Make sure you ask your photographer how long they have been in the business, where they attended school and for how long, and who they were employed with before they went into business for themselves (if that is the case). Asking these questions can help you make a clear decision when choosing an event photographer. Ask their previous employer what kind of work they produced if they are now in business for themselves. Its better to find out now even if it is kind of a sneaky way of getting the information.

Being relaxed around your event photographer will make things go smother. When you are around them they should make you feel comfortable as well. This will help them in capturing the precious photos later on at your wedding. If you are nervous around your event photographer you will see that emotion in your wedding pictures.

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Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Tips On Getting Your Ex Back After A Breakup

By Sonja Schuyler

If you have ever experienced a break up, you probably wondered what went wrong and how to get your ex back. Most people have experienced some kind of a break up. While some are doing their best to move on, some are looking for ways to get their ex back. You know it takes some work to get an ex back.

Does breaking up mean that you cannot get back together with your ex? Ninety percent of the time there is really no reason why you can't get an ex back after a break up. You just need to learn what steps are necessary to win your ex back.

Before doing anything else, the first step in getting your ex back is learning what happened that caused the break up in the first place. You can't change what happened in the past but you can learn from the mistakes. You can grow from the experiences.

You need to figure out what went wrong in the first place. Your break up might have happened from one event or it may have occurred from several things. No matter what the reason was that led to the breakup, you need to get it figured out so you can deal with it should it come up again if you want to make the reconcillation last the long term,

A needy person is not the image you want to project. Do not make it obvious that you cannot live without your ex. Stay strong. Be self confident. Remember, you will have a better chance of getting back together if your ex knows that you are doing just fine by yourself.

Don't try being nasty or try to get back at your ex. Also, trying to make your ex jealous is not a good idea. You don't want your ex to move on because he thinks you have. Though you want your ex to see you doing well, you do not want to inspire him or her to completely move on if your goal is to get back together.

Always analyze what went wrong and find out what the problems in your relationship were. What caused the arguments? Which needs weren't being met? Work on rectifying those issues.

For more great techniques, principles and advice, I would recommend the The Magic Of Making Up. It has helped hundreds of men and women just like you win back the mind, heart and soul of the ones they love.

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Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Dating Your Closest Friend

By Abigayle Karla

It is common to hear people wishing that their partner also become their closest pal. However, it is rare to hear people say they want to date their best friend. Is it really possible to date your best buddy in spite of all the bad things that could happen?

Let's first check out the benefits. You already know your partner. You know what is important to him or her; what he or she has been through; what he or she is capable of; his or her fears; his or her family, work, and relationship history; and others. Additionally, you already know your closest pal's character; temperament; and pet peeves. You have been through good and bad times, and have a naturally deep commitment to each other. You also value each other highly. Finally, you already know how to work as a team through the games and pranks that you played. You have respect, faith in each other, and open communication.

Now, let's see why many people discourage you from getting into a relationship with your best friend. If the relationship does not work out, you do not just lose a date you also lose your best buddy. Moreover, when that happens, you may lose mutual friends as well. Expectations are generally higher in relationships than in friendships. This is one of the things that make that relationship with your closest pal difficult.

A breakup between best pals can, moreover, result in extreme emotional and psychological harm unlike a breakup with another lover. It could also cause severe depression due to the loss of both best friend and lover.

Relationship experts all agree that enduring relationships continuously need involvement, open communication, mutual respect, cooperation, and commitment. Listen when you need to, say sincerely how you feel, and tell your partner what you expect. When making decisions, be considerate to each other. Never forget to show how much you love him or her. Agree on what is important and what is not. And, finally, set career, family, and personal goals together.

Therefore, having a relationship with your best pal is possible and may, in fact, work well. Building on the above aspects that have been previously established during friendship will make the relationship work.

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Monday, February 22, 2010

How to Impress a Girl If You're Shy

By Brad Jackson

Some men tell me they can't begin learning how to impress a girl because they're shy. If you can relate to this, you are hardly the only one. There are so many of introverted guys who get cold feet when theyre face to face with girls. They stand there and can't say anything.. When I encounter some who need to learn how to impress a girl even with their introverted disposition, I always remind these guys that being shy isn't a handicap. Shyness is a part of your social programming and it can be surmounted.

At this point, you need to ask yourself: are you making use of introversion as an alibi? You bet there are men who tell themselves that they're too shy to learn how to impress a girl and simply give up without trying.

What you probably don't know is that you can take advantage of your shyness to attract women. A lot of women find shy guys adorable, which tells a lot. Theres a level of shyness that appeals to women. In fact, your gentle nature could be the thing that sets you apart from the rest of the guys who are trying hard to act macho. Learn how to impress a girl even if youre the shy type.

How to Impress a Girl - Two Techniques for Quiet Guys

1. Direct the Flow of the Convo

Women dislike overbearing men. This fact is noticeable anywhere you go. But these women dislike men who cant take charge of the conversation even more. So, how do you strike a balance between being too overbearing and letting her talk?

Prod her to talk, but direct the flow of the conversation by asking thought provoking questions. Crack jokes or neg her when she spouts bullshit. Laugh along with her when she tells a joke, and dont forget to take a swipe at her with your own brand of teasing.

When a girl opens up about her interests, that's your opening to get to know her more. Her stories will also tell of her hobbies and whether she is someone you want to spend a weekend with or not.

This style of conversing with a woman builds rapport fast. She will remember you as the guy who completely made her feel at ease talking about herself.

2. Show Her Another Side of Your Personality

Just when she thinks she has you figured out, surprise her with another personality aspect that you haven't shown her yet. Think about it. A woman has a predetermined notion of who you are and what you are about , then when she sees a side of you thats unexpected, she reels in disbelief.

One of the tools you can employ to learn how to impress a girl are magic tricks. The key is to be natural about it, like when you try it while you are in the middle of a discussion, or when the talk is getting boring. She wont see it coming, but she will be pleased that she found a gem of a guy she is utterly attracted to that night.

Find out more about magic tricks and how you can apply these to attract women here

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Sunday, February 21, 2010

Real Peace of Mind

By Jamie Brown

This day in age, people are turning to religion in droves. Christianity, Islam, Hinduism and Buddhism has embedded it's ideology in the hearts and minds of millions globally. While all these religions deserve respect and tolerance, few in the west have a grasp on the complicated concept of Buddhism.

The end all and be all of online encyclopedias, Wikipedia grabs the first slot on a Google search for the term Buddhism and the breakdown reads like this: "Buddhism is a religion and a philosophy encompassing a variety of traditions, beliefs and practices, largely based on teachings attributed to Siddhartha Gautama, commonly known as the Buddha (Pali/Sanskrit "the awakened one"). The Buddha lived and taught in the northeastern Indian subcontinent sometime between the 6th and 4th centuries BCE.

He is recognized by adherents as an awakened teacher who shared his insights to help sentient beings end suffering, achieve nirvana, and escape what is seen as a cycle of suffering and rebirth. Buddhism is traditionally conceived as a path of liberation attained through insight into the ultimate nature of reality. Two major branches of Buddhism are recognized: Theravada ("The School of the Elders") and Mahayana ("The Great Vehicle"). Theravada, the oldest surviving branch, has a widespread following in Sri Lanka and Southeast Asia, and Mahayana is found throughout East Asia and includes the traditions of Pure Land, Zen, Nichiren Buddhism, Tibetan Buddhism, Shingon, Tendai and Shinnyo-en. In some classifications, a third branch, Vajrayana, is recognized, although many see this as an offshoot of the Mahayana. While Buddhism remains most popular within Asia, both branches are now found throughout the world.

Various sources put the number of Buddhists in the world at between 230 million and 500 million." After living abroad in Asia for several years I have found that Buddhist cultures are more tolerant because the focus is on the 'self' and the meditation on the calming of the mind, concentrating on controlled breathing and the idea that meditation to bring one closer to peace is central to discovering one's self.

If you have the opportunity to investigate the practice of Buddhism, I would highly recommend it. I'm not saying to take up the path and convert to a religion but the calming affect that is central to this religions concept will bring a peaceful serenity to your life that you may find useful. All in all respect and tolerance for all religious perspectives is something that people are beginning to make a conscious effort to practice and understanding ideas from various religions can teach us an appreciation that can bring us all closer together.

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Saturday, February 20, 2010

Top 5 Turn Offs for Ukrainian and Russian Women

By Tony Rockwell

Want to know what turns Russian women off? One well-known dating service recently polled 580 ladies from Russia and the Ukraine to determine what characteristics they cannot stand in men. Here are the results.

5. Dirty, Dirty: Few ladies like men who are dirty and disheveled, therefore it's important to always put your best face forward. To make the best impression, shower, shave, and dress in tidy, wrinkle-free clothing before posing for a photo that you plan to post or send on an international dating website.

4. Rude Boy! It should come as no surprise that women are not attracted to rude men. Therefore it's important that a suitor always treat a lady with kindness and respect. When it comes to Russian dating, common rude behavior includes lying, gossiping, sending crude or sexually explicit messages or requests, name-calling, etc. If you want to be successful with the ladies, refrain from such distasteful actions.

3. Self-Centeredness: No one likes a self-centered individual, least of all Russian women. If you are dating a lady online, try to see things from her point her view and make an effort to consider her wants and needs as well as your own. Men who are considerate and thoughtful are much more attractive than those with a "Me! Me! Me!" mentality.

2. Lack of Honesty: Dishonest men do not attract Russian women. If you're hoping to find the lady of your dreams on an international dating site, don't lie about your job, your age, your income, your appearance, or any other aspect of all your life. Be honest and find a lady who will love you for who you are.

1. Bad Manners: Men with bad manners turn Russian women off, so be on your best behavior if you want to win the heart of special lady. What constitutes bad manners when it comes to online courting? Ignoring messages, neglecting to use basic niceties like please or thank you, insulting a lady, and making demands are all things to avoid. Your best bet is to always treat a lady like you would like to be treated.

So, what turns Russian women off the most? A messy appearance, rudeness, self-centeredness, dishonesty, and bad manners all top the list. If you're hoping to win the heart of a special lady avoid these undesirable qualities at all costs!


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Friday, February 19, 2010

Do I Need Closure After A Breakup Before Dating Again?

By Gregory Howard

There is a common belief that you can't go forward until there is closure of the old relationship. So is closure a must? I feel the answer is unique to each individual. Some people never really reach what is viewed as closure, and still are able to go on to be successful at relationships.

So what is closure anyway? Is it that ah-ha moment when you all of a sudden wish the best for your ex and have no ill will? And is it absolutely necessary to be able to date again? Lets find out:

There Is A Difference Between Dating & Relationships

When you are dating there really is no emotional commitment. There might be attraction and nervousness, going on but it's at a pretty minor scale. Dating is like a practice run so there really isn't any closure needed.

When comparing dating to a relationship it's like comparing a ride in a canoe to one on a cruise ship. There is a whole lot more to a relationship especially when you have 100% of your love, your dreams and your future plans involved.

We have so much invested in a relationship, and the closure process comes in the form of getting back the control of our love, our dreams and or future visions. Until we have command of these emotions we will find it very difficult to start the process of a successful future with someone new.

This Is The Frustrating Part

Lets just say you find another, they have the looks that you like, they are funny, they have manners and they smell good. What sucks is if you are not in control of your feelings from your last relationship this new one doesn't have a chance.

You need to put off any relationship until you are 100 percent alright with your ex not being in your life. Until you feel you are OK with your ex being out of your life stay away from anything that comes close to a relationship.

If you are not yet ready for a relationship does that mean you shouldn't date? No, studies have shown that dating can speed up the act of getting your heart, your hopes and your dreams back.

Take Them Back, They're Yours

Here's what I mean: Dating closure isn't a must but relationship closure is, if you are looking to build a successful relationship in the future. It is well worth the time and energy to get your emotional ducks in a row. Because it's not fair to you or the other person, know matter what they smell like.

Taking control of your emotions might be one of the hardest and scariest things you have ever had to do. You need to look at the big picture, the picture of you with a happy future, no matter how scary it might seem now.

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Thursday, February 18, 2010

Get your Ex Wife Back Through These Trouble-Free Tips

By John T. Smith

Impossible as it may seem, there are times when someone has to marry the same person twice. This only shows that there are life after divorce so if you think that you would like to get your ex wife back even after the long process of divorce and separation then you don't have to think that your case is already hopeless because if you know the right process to do then you are bound to get the result that you expect.

Of course, there's zip to be done in case both couple is decided to not hound the relationship again but in case somebody is still wishing for reconciliation then it is pretty much feasible to be with one another's arms again in almost no time. Essentially , people shouldn't start in trying too desperately to save the wedding ; this is one of the most typical mistakes that partners do to their better halves. Remember that girls basically want over the sensation of being pursued so in case a man keeps on doing this then problem may rise as the better half will usually enjoy the awareness thus she'll unknowingly want for it so the possibility for reconciliation starts to turn imprecise because she'll keep on wishing that she is going to be pursued. These are some angles to think about to get your ex wife back :

1. Be powerful. You have to be tough enough to make sure that you'll be able to ride through the tides irrespective of what. In times when you believe that your better half isn't actually flattered with the idea of being in one another's arms again, just stick with your hopes that sometime she'll have a change of heart. If you do not give up, you'll be in a position to get your ex wife back.

2. It is really important to never plead and disagree with her in occasions when you're winning her back. Though it's going to be simpler to lose your composure specifically when your better half starts to act like a brat again, but you want to stay with your guidelines. This way, your better half will appreciate the change the occurred to you.

3. Nevertheless, do not become consistent in wanting to get your ex wife back by agreeing with her opinion at all times because your wife for sure would like to know how you truly feel about some matters.

4. Dress well and show a good face all the times. Show her that you are living your life happily even without her. Through this, she is going to be drawn to you again.

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